We all look at independence as a strength. "Oh look at Sarah and how independent she is, she doesn’t need anyone to help her financially or emotionally. She has it all worked out for herself." On the outside yes, and a level of independence is important for all of us, but when it becomes part of your survival mechanism then we have a problem. Independence can start to instill in us that we do not need anyone else, that we can do everything ourselves and we can walk this world

I had a dream last night that I was looking for a young man called Otien. He had blonde hair and blue eyes and I had a strong connection to him but could not find him not matter how hard I searched. I bumped into someone that I seemed to know well, but not on this earth plane, and she told me, how does it feel to connect with you in different forms, can you feel it. I thought about it for a moment and said yes, we have so many traits that are the same, we understand each othe