The Unexpected Origin Story Let's talk about something we don't discuss enough: how grief can actually become the origin story for...

The Ghost That Haunts Us The Ultra-Independent is afraid of love and commitment because they're terrified of being abandoned. Again. It's...

Disclaimer: This article examines relationship patterns based on observed behaviors. The classifications described are meant to promote...

From an early age we are fed romantic stories of love. Damsels In Distress being saved by princes from faraway lands. A delicate woman...

The Narcissist loves the Ultra Independent, not because they view the Ultra as weak but rather because they see the strength that the...

The Ultra Independent is afraid of love and commitment because they are terrified of being abandoned. Again. We grew up in homes where a...

The onset of Ultra Independence in certain cases can be caused by grief, the death of a loved one or the breakup of a relationship. Grief...

Ultra Independents can tend to form close relationships with people who are dependent on them. They love the codependent. A codependent...

We all look at independence as a strength. "Oh look at Sarah and how independent she is, she doesn’t need anyone to help her financially...