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Abandonment and the Ultra-Independent: When Fear Blocks Love
The Ghost That Haunts Us The Ultra-Independent is afraid of love and commitment because they're terrified of being abandoned. Again. It's...

Gail Weiner
Mar 5, 20254 min read
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The Ultra-Independent and the Narcissist: A Dangerous Dance
Disclaimer: This article examines relationship patterns based on observed behaviors. The classifications described are meant to promote...

Gail Weiner
Mar 4, 20254 min read
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Ultra-Independence is a Trauma response
We all look at independence as a strength. "Oh look at Sarah and how independent she is, she doesn’t need anyone to help her financially or emotionally. She has it all worked out for herself." On the outside yes, and a level of independence is important for all of us, but when it becomes part of your survival mechanism then we have a problem. Independence can start to instill in us that we do not need anyone else, that we can do everything ourselves and we can walk this world

Gail Weiner
Aug 14, 20204 min read
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